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"If an egg is broken from outside force – LIFE ENDS; If an egg breaks from WITHIN – LIFE BEGINS… GREAT things always begins from WITHIN." - Unknown "Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny" - Mahatma Gandhi "One person with a belief is equal to a force of ninety-nine who have only interests." - John Stuart Mill "Youth is not a time of life - it is a state of mind. It is not a matter of red cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is a temper of the will; a quality of the imagination; a vigor of the emotions; it is a freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over a life of ease. This often exists in a man of fifty, more than in a boy of twenty. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years; people grow ...

You were born with all the tools to allow you to succeed. You were born with all the potential to succeed, you can achieve any goal you want... or can you? When you were born you had no negative thoughts. No Limiting Beliefs. No self doubts. You could do anything. But on your journey through life, you started to lose sight of that potential. You started to doubt yourself. You started to let negative thoughts fill your mind. Maybe somebody told you that you can't succeed or that life is hard and you believed them. You started to develop limiting beliefs and you began to think you no longer have the potential to succeed. You may even believe that you were not born to succeed, or worse, that you were born to suffer. The truth is you still have all that potential, you've just buried it, you've dismissed it and you've let negative thinking, limiting beliefs and self doubt convince you that you can't or won't succeed. So how do you unlock the potential that you were b...

Sometimes we feel that some people have outgrown us,or is it Life itself outgrows itself.. There are some people who we feel can be our friends forever...then there are some friends who we feel that we don't have anything in common,after a certain period of time... As we grown up,or go ahead in life...we don't need certain relationships or friendships...and these seem too much or very high maintainance to even say a hai or hello....Life isn't fair in this way... I guess it's life's own stark reality....because there is no forever and ever..... Atleast in this fast paced life..... Some persons move out by misunderstandings...some by transfers,some just because we don't need to speak any more... Such people bring shudders to one's thought...when I meet them... I find nothing in common...in our friendship with such persons... Is it that I am being too choosy or is it , Life's way of saying that you have outgrown these kinds of people... I guess it's tim...

How is that I feel lonely when I have everything.... my family beside me,and many more things that others can only dream of....? Inspite of all this... Why is it that my heart feels empty and loneliness tugs at my heart and pain in inevitable... It's the knawing pain that I haven't settled in life and i am a old relic, no more marketable in the "marriage market" that hurts me more... than anything. No one has said anything to me that you are so old or why is it that you are still unmarried... But everyone does talk in hushed whispers.... That this girl is still unmarried,and something must be wrong with her, maybe her horoscope is bad...etc etc...and that pains me a lot... come on...I never chose my horoscope...I am not responsible for what good planets or bad planets are born with...thats the play of the stars.. how can I set that right.... I don't even have supportive relatives who take any initiative to find a sutiable match for me..they only know to talk and c...

Aha... My Q1 Achievement Points ie Employee Points came and I have scored 92%. It's one of the highest in the Chennai Region. I am happy to reach this and feel great,that being a dentist...I have come so far.....It's a nice feeling... People said..A dentist...how will you adjust...how will you work..how far will you go... And today when EPS came,everyone has shut up..... It seems that I had been pushed up the wall,and I bounced back and came back... like a Phoenix,that rises from it's own ashes.... People who made fun,who made comments about my ability...have no excuses to say now... I am now one of the most valuable and productive employees.... It gives me a high...and a rush that I have come so far...and oh of course I still have a very very long way to go...

How to Recover from a Bad Day Bad days are a part of life. We all have them. No matter how many yoga classes you attend or how smoothly your life runs, you'll run up against one sooner or later. The secret to thriving is learning how to move forward in spite of bad days, not aiming to never have one (although minimizing their frequency is a good thing). Here are some tips for dusting yourself off and getting back on track after a bad day happens: Do you have permission to have a bad day? Make sure that your inner-perfectionist (the one who requires all-or-nothing success) isn't running your show. Are you knee-deep in self-blame or guilt for things that may have contributed to your bad day (or for the way you reacted to it)? As long as you are busy beating yourself up, you won't be able to move on. Why not work on the idea that an occasional bad day is simply to be expected? It doesn't mean you failed; it means it's time to implement the "bad day plan." Are...

How To Impress Anyone You Meet If you are reading this, you are looking for ways to make new friends, get along with work colleagues better, maybe wanting to make your first meeting with that someone special really lead to something more. There could be many reasons for you to turn on the most pleasing aspects of your personality. First impressions really do count but how many times have you met someone who you didn´t expect to like, or thought gosh that person looks geeky or odd yet having spoken to them your perception of them completely changes in a short time? Well, if you felt drawn to them, or felt like talking to them longer than expected, or found yourself wanting to hear what they were going to say next... that person was being charming. What is the definition of charm, to be charmed or be charming? To charm is to appeal, attract interest, please or stimulate. In this article, when I talk about how to charm, it will be with all of the above in mind. I will give you pointers o...