Here I Am..This..is Me...

why do people want to control women... is that girls are more informed or more adaptable  today more than before.. How come we have no voice... If we want to take a stand,we are not allowed to do ...it saying ...na na tum ladki ho ....aisa nahin karna....tumhe shoba nahi deta... whatever we want to do in today's indian male dominated society, we are ridiculed,brought down and stopped...in every step we..take.... It hurts....and hurt bad...We are still seeing many serials on television, regarding female infanticide.....how come they are glamourising the practise when it is a stark reality in some interior villages? Some can say they are highlighting the girl child's plight....some think otherwise...... I sincerely feel a woman should be encouraged to perform all her roles with peace.. Be it in the home or office...give her equal oppurtunity and give her wings to fly... She will charm you and amaze you with her talents and capabilities....so much... After all She is mother earth,

Aaah...it's that time of the year again...My good ol' Birthday is near.... Hmm...the date March 20th holds so much significance....or is it just another date in the calender? Well....I was born on that day so many many years ago..and today I stand tall...and at the  threshold of my life....At a Milestone...30 years!! aha...one way the feeling that am growing old is  a bit unsettling....but then...the feeling that the years have taught me so much and made  me more focussed and mature is a great feeling... I have experienced so much and made so many  mistake and invariabily learnt a lot from then... but then there is no human who never makes mistakes..they are essential for our self-growth. I have also met so many people in these past so many years....some of who I still hear from...some who I never wish to see ever again... I have had many friends.....boyfriends...classmates,schoolmates,collegemates..... ICICI collegues....and many other pals.... Many of them who I still keep in

Qualities of Mr Right!!!  Aaaaaaaaaah Mr.Right... well...waaaaaaaaaaaat? does he evn exsist? well then lets list the 10 imp points..that he should have... 1.He should be tall....around 5.5" to 6 feet...is kool...no shorties...plz...coz u know....Tall...guys...are well..more genetically fertile...hehehehe...gotta have good genes... 2.He should have a good sense of humour...after all life is too short to be serious...rite? 3.Hmmm...he should be intelligent...and able to make good conversations.... 4.He should have a gentle dispositon...and be able to take life as it comes.. and when i am in my down...moods...in the dumps...help me by simply supportin me ....holding my hand...and comforting...me 5.He should respect me...and my individuality....coz i love freedom of my own expression...and don't like anyone imposing their idea on me... 6.He should be safe stable and secure in his career and be goal oriented...only then he can be sure of where he is going... 7.He should share my pa

Another day...Another birthday......Another date forgotten in the calander... Life teaches you many things... Sometimes nice...sometimes....not so nice..... Life has some strange ways of making you grow up... Some ways may be so hurting to your heart and soul,that you wish that life could be better. Believe me...I have seen such things happening to others and experienced it myself.. Life has kicked me hard..dumped me into the garbage bin...and, wonder of wonders I have always somehow managed to bounce back.... Thats the reselience of my spirit... One moment I have nothing....and the next moment....Hmmmm.... Basically.....Life is what you make it to be.. Its as wonderful or as distressful as we tend to believe it will be... Start living everyday as if it is your final day.....every minute as your last breath, and then you will begin to see the difference...... My view of life has undergone a lot of changes... I have begun to believe there's no fairytale...no gold pot at the end of t

A Woman is always someone's mother,someone's sister....someone's lover... She is ever adaptable...ever caring...and ever lasting..... When I was born,it was a woman who held my little hand and cradled me in her warmth... As I grew she,held my tiny finger and made me learn to walk... She spent countless hours reading the alphabet and trying to make me speak..... As I walked and stumbled...she rushed to my side ....to pick me up and go on... Through the years....My mother has always been a support and a constant guidance...to me... Though many a time,I never listened to her advice...which in turn were invariably right..... She said never let anyone take advantage of you...you are innocent my child ...... I believed that,I was the greatest...and no one can harm...me....But then...I went..out into the world... and got kicked in my face.....It was then I realised that once I left the strong protected arms of my mom,the big bad world was ready to eat me...up... I was cheated,used

How is it that we expect some people to change...and that too...overnight... They will remain stubborn,hypocites...and rigid in their views... I hate someone who can't change for me...and wishes always I have to adjust for them... It can be anyone ..friends...family or even closest of my circle... Well all my friends know my true nature...and respect that...They respect my individuality  and try to adjust to my routine...I agree one shouldn't have a strong opinion and should also try to think out of the box,and try to see things from the other person's point of view... But then how can we live life ....always living in the fear of judgement of others.... When can we come out of that constant fear of being perfect....and always waiting for acceptance and hoping that we would be understood...Come on...!!!!!!!!!! Hogwash! Any Man who says he wants things only his way and wants you to change for him...always... and won't even bend to you for a simple thing like taking to yo