Here I Am..This..is Me...

"Relationships aren’t about being perfect. It’s about losing yourself in love and letting go of your insecurities. To grow as a person and find about yourself that you can only discover when you’re with that special person. The best part of being flawed is trying to become better. Not because you strive for perfection but because you strive to see your loved one happy and you’d do everything and anything to make sure that happens."

Have you have ever the feeling that you have known someone for a lifetime... even if you know them for a few minutes....It seems as if they were always a part of your life... Never present in person..but always been in your background....of your life.. Soulmates are said to be such people...They can be friends,lovers,family members.... Anyone who is a part of your life today...come at the right time to teach you some important lesson... Some soulmates come when your life is lacking something or if it's a desire that you have expressed... Such soulmates come forward and enrich your life...Maybe it was a need for love or companionship.. Maybe a desire for friendship....Soulmates come out of nowwhere as if god was hearing your call all along..... Your loneliness may have been the reason..or just that you wanted someone to hear you... Soulmates can be temporary or permanent in your life..depending on the need that you have expressed.. Some people stay and some move on...No ma...

Sometimes in life,we are always in a dilemma whether the path that we have chosen is correct or wrong... and we never seem to be 100% sure that we are doing the correct thing.... I mean whether it is in Life,Love or Work... How can we be totally sure whatever decision we take is the best and in our own interests... Sometimes we have to give up many things that we held so close to our heart....and move on... Sometimes we have to leave some people mid-way in life and go on to newer people... Such people who we leave behind can be friends or lovers... People who mattered once.... Now don't matter anymore.... How is it that we can be sure when we break up with such persons,that we are doing the correct thing..... Then sometimes we meet people who are totally wrong for you, but yet we feel so much unknowingly attracted to them, that we can't seem to get them out of our minds..... Such people mean something to us... and yet we can't totally have them to ourselves....

"Realizes that maybe its not the letting go that tears you apart. It's the holding on. It's not the forgetting, it's the remembering." Have you ever had the feeling that you are trapped in a rut...and life is not moving at your pace...You are forced into circumstances and you just aren't allowed to lead your own life..Your family forces you to accept things that they want...How many times have you said yes to everyone... Done things for people..and never once Someone has done something for you.... When was the last time something nice happened in your life....? For me,that has been ages ago....Life hasn't been very kind to me... Neither have people around me..Everyone just wants their own agenda... People are selfish and mean....No one cares for my feelings or happiness.. I just have to keep on giving and not receive any appreciation in return..... I hate it that I am alone and I have no one to call my own... Maybe thats why my family takes m...

One month..a whole one month has gone by in this new year... and already the year seems to be a old one.. as the charm of the new year has gone by and things have moved on... Atleast I seem to have moved on... I broke up with someone who I felt I was meant to be, when I realised he was not making a commitment to me... Men what happens to them when, We say marriage....They scoot... The best way to get rid of a guy is to either say you want to get married or say I think I might be pregnant... nothing makes them run faster than a scared deer. They run with their tail between their legs... aka in this case its their so called manhood...which isn't much to talk about as many of them aren't men... Men are always scared of commitment....... Just scaredy cats,who are ultimately going to break your heart..... In my career,too I seem to have moved on.. I recently completed 3 years in ICICI,which is a great achievement in itself,considering the fact three years ago, I ...

In Life...many things are just not meant to be... like the fact that I may never have a "love marriage", as I envisioned since I was a little girl.. Maybe such things are really where they belong Ummm...in fairy tales are someone else's life... I will never get such a handsome prince charming and never have someone to sweep me off my feet... it seems it's just going to be old me...f or sometime now,and I will be married off to a older man maybe 40 year old... just because my parent's feel that guy is the best they can get for me at this age.... It hurts that in the 21st century... I have no choice in my life partner and I should be forced to marry whomsoever my parent's find fit.... This is the worst turn my life can take... Oh wait my life was wasted the moment he walked into my life... and yeah then I dumped him cos he couldn't commit to marriage... Some men are such bas?*$*$*$ds because,all is ok when you are dating and roaming the ...

Have you ever got the feeling that life is wizzing past you... at breakneck speed so fast that your entire life is gone out of control... Well then it's time that you picked up the pieces left of your life.. and regained control of what you seemed to have lost.. Live life every day,as if it is going to be your last... You never know when you may die,it can be the very next second... So use every second to live a life... because life isn't a dress rehersal and we get no playbacks... we have to live in "on air" all the time...no freeze frames or no flashbacks... This is life...tomorrow when in the twilight of your life on the deathbed... you aren't going to remember the good things that happened... You will only regret the risks that you never took,and the things that you never tried... I believed all things in life should be tried atleast once...be it love,marriage,alcohol, drugs or anything for that matter....Try it and atleast experience the feeling....