Love is Hell.....Not all a bed of Roses..

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Love is hell...
Well...You...know...
love is Life and all that hogwash!!!!
Makes you believe that the World revolves around love..And the like...
But then the Initial Ride is not worth the final fall..I mean you feel all woozy peasy and light headed when you fall in love..but then the feeling doesnot last tooo... long....when you begin to discover that the "Special Person" in your life is just another Human Being...Who is the same person as you...having the same inadequacies...and the same faults...As in you...Which you covered up....And hoped not to discover in Him/Her!!!
So i say Dears......Wake up and smell the Pansies...Not the Freaking Roses...coz....Love is Hell...Believe me I have been there...Done that...Girls...Please don't ever say am all yours.........dahlin@!!
all that just means you exclusively his property and not anyone else's...
so that indirectly mean "HE CAN FLIRT WITH ALL WOMEN ..." And you have to hold his hand when he's checkin that babe in Pizza Hut..Or Ethiraj College!!And you are not allowed to speak to any guy Pals...Coz he might get jealous..and Start acting funny and doing the Filmy dialogues"I like you...So much..and can't bear having you speaking to other Men..." And all ...
that Stupid Possesive Stuff...That makes us girls...Believe that our Special Man..is totally smitten like a puppy for us...When he's actually not...And is just fooling us...and freaking our hormones...And Playing with our emotions....
Doesn't that sound familiar....???????????
Well the bottom line is Never say "I do..love you..." hehehehe
"Life is one loooooooooooong journey and we meet all kinds...of people...both good..and bad...in the road and the path...we chose"...Good people make us love life more and teach us a thing or too...Whereas the Bad one's well they too teach us many things...as in to learn from our mistakes...and not repeat the same errors...in our future relationships...or whatever we are going about in our lifetime...
Or you can say our life is a book..where we chose and write our own beautiful chapters...
and we can choose who can come into our life and who we don't want to...so we can either make a beautiful life story or make it a Sad Tragic Novel...called a sob story....It's entirely up to us!!!!!!!
Never Never get emotionally involved with any one.....you never know..when you will walk alone!!!!!!!!

Comments

Ramesh said…
accidentally came to this page.. shocked to read your blog and more shocked to see raz comments. while something might be true in what you are saying, many of the things differs with different people. i dont know what else to say..
4:18 AM
Anonymous said…
"Never Never get emotionally involved with any one.....you never know..when you will walk alone!!!!!!!!" thts quoting ur words nila.... i dont agree... yes relationships may go sour.. but tht does not mean that u never get emotionally involved wth anyone again!! y miss out on the experience of better things in future, the joy of feeling secured, just because of one experience tht left u bitter... wth every relationship (good or bad), we mature emotionlally, all becoz we learn thru them, not thru our "mistakes", but thru the whole relationship! its meant to be a wholesome experience wth all the ups and downs included! we cant run away from life... same goes with a relationship, DONT run from it. if ure bitten the second time too, move on, deal with it. be matured, but don make up ur mind never to fall in love again!
1:07 PM
This is me said…
hee hee hee....tell me about it!! never ever ever believe it when a guy starts praising you!! 99.9% he has some hidden agenda!! :D
2:54 PM
nila said…
yer...........100% rite...
3:30 PM
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